Bringing a parent home from the hospital
Discharge often happens fast, and the days right after leaving the hospital are when people are most likely to end up back in one. You have the right to ask questions and to slow the conversation down. This is general information, not medical advice.
Before you leave the hospital
- Ask for the written discharge instructions and read them together before you go You can ask a nurse to walk through anything that isn't clear.
- Get an updated medication list and confirm what changed, stopped, or started
- Ask who to call after hours if something seems wrong, and write the number down
- Ask whether home health, physical therapy, or equipment (a walker, a shower chair) was ordered
Set up for the first days home
- Fill new prescriptions on the way home, or arrange delivery, so there's no gap
- Clear a safe path to the bathroom and bed; move trip hazards out of the way
- Plan the first follow-up appointment and how your parent will get there
- Know the warning signs to watch for and exactly what to do if you see them The discharge papers should list these — ask if they don't.
Ask for help early
- Ask the hospital case manager or social worker what home support they can arrange Every hospital has one; ask by name if you haven't met them.
- Call the Eldercare Locator (1-800-677-1116) for local services and respite
- Line up one person who can cover a few hours so you can rest or run errands
This checklist is general information, not medical advice. Talk with your parent's doctor about their specific situation.
Keep going
Organizing a parent's medications safely
A calm system for pills, refills, and side effects — so nothing gets missed or doubled.
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Fall-proofing a parent's home
A room-by-room walk-through to remove the hazards that cause most falls — most fixes are small and cheap.
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Touring an assisted living or care community
What to look for, ask, and notice on a visit — beyond the polished lobby and the sales pitch.
Open →Working out the bigger picture too? See what care costs, the programs that may help pay for it, or take the Care Needs Check to sort out what level of help fits.